My best friend in the world is a guy but he's never been a guys-guy, he's soft and squishy.
Not to gender binary it out, but girls tend to be a little better about listening to their friends' bullshit and offering thoughts and advice. I guess you could say we're raised to be sharers and carers.
So it's less me being your therapist, and more me caring about what's going on in your head and heart because you're my friend and that's what it is.
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Date: 2024-06-11 11:16 pm (UTC)Not to gender binary it out, but girls tend to be a little better about listening to their friends' bullshit and offering thoughts and advice. I guess you could say we're raised to be sharers and carers.
So it's less me being your therapist, and more me caring about what's going on in your head and heart because you're my friend and that's what it is.